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Monserrat Gonz\u00e1lez Camarena \u00b7 Estudiante de Licenciatura en Psicolog\u00eda, UNIVA Guadalajara<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Creciste con la idea de lo que deb\u00edas ser y c\u00f3mo deb\u00eda ser un hombre, un papel impuesto por la sociedad. A menudo te cuestionabas por qu\u00e9 las personas importantes para la historia eran en su mayor\u00eda mujeres. \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 no hablaban de varones con contribuciones importantes a la sociedad?, \u00bfno exist\u00edan o los hombres con contribuciones eran opacados por mujeres que les robaban sus logros o descubrimientos? La raz\u00f3n era sencilla: los hombres han sido constantemente silenciados por el g\u00e9nero que se considera superior, un grupo de personas con privilegios de los que t\u00fa careces y ellas no notan; pero, al menos, ahora cuentas con el derecho al voto y a la educaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Tu infancia llena de prejuicios y estereotipos de g\u00e9nero. \u00abLanzas como ni\u00f1o\u00bb, \u00aberes muy exagerado\u00bb, \u00ablos hombres deben dedicarse \u00fanicamente a sus hijos y a su esposa\u00bb, \u00abes culpa tuya por salir de noche y con esa ropa, las provocas\u00bb, \u00aberes demasiado inteligente para ser un hombre\u00bb, \u201ccalladito te ves m\u00e1s bonito\u201d, \u201cun hombrecito no habla fuerte y no ocupa espacio\u201d. Estereotipos que las benefician a ellas y te perjudican a ti.<\/p>\n

Te desarrollaste antes que todos tus compa\u00f1eros, causando miradas y comentarios que te provocaban incomodidad. Una vez te convertiste en un \u201chombrecito\u201d, como te llamaba tu padre, te dijo que era natural, sin embargo, deb\u00edas esconderlo, pues es repulsivo y sucio que tengan que sangrar una vez al mes.<\/p>\n

Sufriste acoso callejero a los trece a\u00f1os mientras te dirig\u00edas a tu hogar. A partir de ese momento, seguiste tu camino estando alerta e inseguro. Despu\u00e9s de aquel evento que impact\u00f3 tu vida, tomaste diferentes caminos para regresar a tu casa, siempre mirando a todos lados para confirmar que nadie te siguiera. A los quince fuiste cosificado al igual que tus compa\u00f1eros en una lista que calificaba de mayor a menor su atractivo f\u00edsico, y quedaste en los \u00faltimos lugares.<\/p>\n

Violentado por tu novia a los dieciocho, te result\u00f3 complicado salir de esa relaci\u00f3n, te cost\u00f3 m\u00faltiples lesiones f\u00edsicas y una considerable p\u00e9rdida de salud mental. No la denunciaste a tiempo, y a pesar de haberlo hecho, el resultado hubiese sido el mismo: \u201cno podemos hacer nada, pues es una mujer inteligente con un futuro brillante. \u00bfNo quieres arruinar su vida, o s\u00ed?\u201d Quer\u00edas que ella tuviera una vida dif\u00edcil y pagara por sus actos violentos contra ti.<\/p>\n

Decidiste casarte a los veinticuatro con la mujer que amabas. Pocos meses despu\u00e9s, formaron una familia, a pesar de que no estabas listo o no quer\u00edas hijos en ese momento. Sin embargo, tu funci\u00f3n principal siempre fue traer ni\u00f1os al mundo, pues los hombres solo sirven para ello y para las labores dom\u00e9sticas.<\/p>\n

Crees que eres afortunado porque no has vuelto a experimentar violencia dentro de tu relaci\u00f3n de pareja. Comparas tu matrimonio con el de tus amigos cercanos y piensas que has tenido \u00e9xito al no haber vivido un abandono de tu esposa despu\u00e9s de tener hijos, como le ha sucedido a un par de tus amigos que ahora tienen dificultades, pues no reciben una pensi\u00f3n alimentaria.<\/p>\n

Tuviste la fortuna de elegir seguir trabajando, pues a comparaci\u00f3n de otros hombres no eres un esposo trofeo que solo atrajo la atenci\u00f3n de una mujer por su belleza. Ahora, vives una vida similar a la de tu padre, una vida que no esperabas tener; encarg\u00e1ndote del cuidado de tu hija debido a tu instinto paternal y sensibilidad; asimismo, sirves a tu esposa, quien sin duda es una excelente proveedora, de todos modos, estabas destinado a cumplir tu rol en la sociedad como hombre.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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